Practicing radical self-care means prioritizing your health first and foremost.
It serves as a form of protest for Black women against an oppressive system. By looking after yourself, you demonstrate that you are aware of your value and that you are not a Black martyr.
Exercise is only one aspect of self-care. It requires having a healthy spirit and mind-body-soul link. According to a study, the other two are affected when one of these areas is acting up. Here’s when you need to take some time out and love yourself back into balance.
Use radical self-care when appropriate
Your well-being depends on your ability to recognize when you need to practice radical self-care. Unlike other types, radical self-care requires your complete attention every day. Do you have a stomachache when making a tough decision? Or when you're tense? Or when you’ve done something that you didn't want to do? You know what we mean — that feeling.
Through bubble guts, the mind, body, and soul converse. Our spirit senses a problem, our mind generates unfavorable emotions, and our body responds to stress hormones. These occurrences show that something is amiss with you, and that you need to satisfy one of your wants in order to maintain your health. The trick is to keep your three areas of wellness in balance.
To do this, you need to implement a wellness tool. It's difficult, though: The flow of life often keeps you from practicing self-care. To keep your health, find a simple, sustainable method that works for you.
Self-care enhances wellbeing and wards off illness. Modern survival, especially for Black women, depends on how effectively you keep your “core” intact. This enables you to establish a secure atmosphere in a hostile society. By doing so, you help your future self. So for you, self-care is crucial.
Let go of the shame of loving yourself
While making health improvements, you may feel guilty. You aren't the only one -- Black women deal with this a lot. Society teaches us that we aren't deserving of good things unless we work hard for them. To aid others, we're trained to suppress our own feelings of hopelessness and worry. You feel guilty when your health comes first.
It’s time to change that flawed narrative repeating in your head, though. Let go of your shame for practicing extreme self-care to improve your quality of life.
So grab a notebook, then: Analyze the origin of these feelings. Where did I pick up putting the needs of others above my own? Why do I have to defend self-care? Next, apologize for going against your boundaries and neglecting to love yourself. Forgive the cause of the guilt. Most likely, a mother or grandma didn't adequately teach you how to take care of yourself. And given her level of self-awareness and knowledge, she likely did the best that she could.
If practicing self-care makes you feel guilty, be kind to yourself. Give yourself the grace to be a beginner and do it anyway, even if it feels strange in the beginning. The harder you try to overcome your guilt over taking care of yourself, the closer you get to emancipation.