Do you know why movie sex scenes are so incredibly seductive? The entire situation has an air of "these aren't genuine people" because they are acting.

With just a little role-playing, regular people like us can experience that same emotion.

To be fully honest, role-playing with your spouse might feel incredibly frightening and, of course, completely odd and embarrassing if you've never done it before. But as with most sexual activities, practice and interaction lead to lots of orgasms!

Set clear limits and safe language for yourself

Discuss what you're willing to do and what you're not before the night turns you and your companion into completely different individuals. Knowing what each of you wants to receive out of the experience is crucial. It might just be an enjoyable experience for you for one evening. This can be a good addition to your partner's regular rotation. Some individuals like using role-playing to live out their fantasies. Just make sure it works for the both of you. Whatever you choose is fantastic. As always, discussing sex with your spouse is vital in this situation.

Additionally, if you're performing BDSM or something similar, you should think of some safe terms.

What to choose for a role-playing game

You can definitely simply make up a character on the fly and stick with it. However, it's acceptable to take some time to think about it and come up with it as you go if you haven't won an Oscar for acting yet. Of course, a different individual would be the simplest solution. You might be your alter ego. You don't completely alter your appearance, but you use a different name and behave a little differently (for instance, instead of becoming more subservient in the bedroom as you would ordinarily), changing your name and name is one such example. Act as though this is your first date all over again.

On the other hand, you might choose a character based on your dreams. What gets you excited? Are there any students or teachers involved? A nurse or a client? Two roommates? Make your choice based on what truly turns you on since if it's not something you two find amusing or sexy, it will only feel weird.

Will there be costumes added? Most definitely! To be fair, if your partner is a man, you might get away with styling your hair differently and donning a smoky eye since they'll believe it's distinctive enough. Wigs are a highly enjoyable and reasonably priced method to switch things up (if your lover is more observant)! Consider adopting a character if the situation is a little more complicated. Don't be afraid to start small if this is your first experience role-playing because it could feel incredibly strange. Having said that

Start small at first

The first time you role-play, it's alright if you don't have the dreamy French maid outfit and a fully fleshed-out script of everything you'll say. Starting a role-playing game with text is incredibly simple and casual. Without the pressure of "acting" in front of each other, you and your partner can assess how you both feel and how much you love it.

If you feel foolish, don't worry

If you're not used to it, role-playing might kind of make you feel like you're back in high school musical theater, and that's totally okay. Although it's novel and different, it takes some getting used to being that way with your spouse. Consider role-playing as a game; after all, very few people are proficient at a game on their first try.

Try another setting

Clearly, we're not going to go to our neighborhood hotel bar and act out our first dates right now. Alternately, move the location of where you are. You can either start your role-play at your home or go for a walk to the park, for some examples. Turn your dining room table or kitchen island into a makeshift bar for the evening if you're really into it. You can imagine your house to be a motel. Get into the game and use your imagination. Being creative is essential to having a good time.

Try these scenarios

The traditional power relationships between employer and employee, teacher and pupil, visitor and maid, nurse or doctor and patient, fitness instructor and student, landlord and renter, etc.

1. Best friends
2. Roommates
3. Strangers
4. Try long-distance sex through Skype or FaceTime even if you're not in an LDR.
5. Food delivery
6. Non-monogamy: Only one partner is the same as the other, who is a stranger
7. Model and photographer

Don’t be afraid to really go all out and act

Getting into it is not strange. For goodness sake, it's your imagination! When you role-play, you can act out all of your fantasies with your partner for a little period of time. It's a wonderful way to explore all the things you want to do without making a huge commitment. When you give something a try, do you find you don't really like it? Attempt a novel approach! Don't be surprised if you thought you would love or hate something and it surprises you; it's all about trial and error.